May 25, 2013

Will She? Won’t She? Adventures in Potty Training

Toilet PaperRaise your hand if you like changing diapers.  *Looks around* Anybody? Me neither.  I am so ready for KJ to potty train.  Alas, she is out to sabotage my plans.  She shows all the “signs” for a toddler who is ready to potty train and she hates to have a dirty diaper, regularly demanding to be “Chain Mommy” as soon as she finishes.

Once you sit her on that potty, it’s a completely different story.  It’s like she has no idea what she’s supposed to be doing on there.  But you see, I know better, I know she knows what to do. Two months ago she would at least go when you put her on there…now, nothing.

Today she wanted to wear panties, so I put a pair on her and asked her repeatedly if she needed to go. When she finally decides yes, we grab a couple Dora books to keep her on the potty and head to the bathroom.  Twenty-five minutes later, nothing.  So she decideds she’s done and ready to go play…runs to her room, stands in front of her baby doll crib and pees.

Sigh. I guess the carpet neeed to be cleaned after all.  Naptime.  Diaper.  I am so weak.  She’s so different than KG.  KG was 2 years 1 day whenI started with her, four days later we were done.  Totally.  It was great. Should have known potty training her would go just like everything else does with KJ…her way.

Any advice for a clueless potty training fool?

Wordless Wednesday: Spring!

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Wordless Wednesday: Easter Edition

easter with my girls

Thankfulness: Randomness

thankful thursdayIt’s Thankful Thursday again and the “theme” is Random.  So here are a few random things I am thankful this Thursday.

  • My middle sister found a job after 3 1/2 months of unemployment and was accepted to college!
  • New locks on the Doors.
  • Fresh Spring Air.
  • My Little Girls Lost Tooth.
  • My Hubby’s Job.
  • My Little Sister’s Due Tomorrow.
  • My Twitter Friends (you guys are awesome!!)

Father God,

My most precious Father in Heaven, Thank You.  You provide such a sweet peace in my life, and for that I am most grateful.  You are such an awesome God and an all knowing Savior…Thank You for my blessed, blessed life. I am unworthy and yet You still bless.  Thank You Jesus for my Salvation and for shedding Your precious Blood so that I might be clean…Thank You for my family; my beautiful children, wonderful husband, and extended family. Please put a hedge of protection around my family and friends. Protect my marriage and Hubby’s job.

In Jesus Name I pray,

A.

My First VLog~Easter Tradition~Homemade Decorations

We often download a ton of great coloring sheets from various site online homeschooling sites…color them as a family, cut them out and let KG and KJ pick where to hang them around our house.  It’s so much fun for them and I get to save all of the beautiful artwork for years to come.  It’s also fun because we can see how their coloring has evolved and gotten better over the years.

Note: What I fail to mention is KJ has just colored her hands blue.

Thankfulness: 3/11

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Last weekend Hubby’s Granny was rushed to the ER in CC with extreme abdominal pain.  Hours later and after being rush to a hospital in Lex. we find out that Granny has a large tumor growing in her abdomen and the only recourse is emergency surgery.  After a three hour long surgery,  she was brought back to the room to recuperate.  By Sunday, she was sitting up in bed and mostly alert. We just received word the doctors got all the cancer!! and she won’t be needing any chemo or radiation! Thank YOU Jesus! I am thankful that she is recuperating rapidly!

I am also thankful for my tiny one.  KJ turned 2 Monday and seems to already act older.  KJ has brought so much light into an already blessed beyond belief family.  I have learned to slow down (some) this time and enjoy her.  KJ already has more empathy than many adults.  She has such a vibrant and beautiful personality, and the best sense of humor. KJ is rabidly KG’s girl.  She love me and she loves Daddy, but she is KG’s girl!  They do everything together when KG is home and would sleep in the same bed if I would allow it.

I am thankful for both of my girls and the blessing of raising them.  I pray I am able to raise them in a Godly manner and instill in them the values, morals, and empathy of Jesus.  I am some times overwhelmed by the responsibility required by being a parent and the inevitable guilt that comes along with it.  Overwhelmed? yes Thankful? You better believe it.

I am also thankful for my readers!  Thank you for coming back here day after day and chatting with me:)  I am truly grateful for you.

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File This Under Really!? Really!?

I needed to speak to Ms. R about the coming night’s Soup with Suess times yesterday day so I headed down to KG’s kindergarten room when it came time to pick her up yesterday. As soon as I walked in the room I could tell something was up. Ms. R came straight over to me and notified me KG was flashed by a little boy in her class room.

I was floored…but I was also curious how KG handled it. Apparently the little one decided to show his undies off to a couple of the boys in the class and while doing so whipped it out; about the time he did, KG looked behind her and got a good look. Mortified my child screams “Ms. R!! ____ has his P*** out!” Ms. R promptly removed him from the room and dealt a punishment suitable for a 5 year old and KG seems no worse for the wear. She managed to only bring it up once in public, so I’m pretty happy about that.  Really though, I was rather proud of the way she handled everything…she handled it better than I might have.

I’ve had a few people express how they feel the boy should have gotten more punishment than what he was dealt or that I should have been called when it happened, but really.  How much more do you punish a 5 year old,  especially when he doesn’t respond to punishment?  Don’t you have to do what you can, hope it gets through, and move on?  If the parents refuse to take part in the child’s life, how can the teacher parent for them?  As for the calling, it probably would have made sense for her to call me if KG was upset, which she wasn’t, and I am sure Ms. R would call me if that had been the case.  All in all, I really feel like the way it was handled was about the best that they could do under the circumstances.

Wordless Wednesday: Joy

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Why I am so thankful for hallways.

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Father-Daughter Dance

Photo Courtesy of www.Eteamz.com

Photo Courtesy of www.Eteamz.com

Friday was the school sponsored Father-Daughter dance at the middle school and all the little girls were talking about it.  As I’m sure you know, little girls in kindergarten(most of them anyway) still want to marry their daddies.  What else could be better than a night with daddy?

Unfortunately Daddy (aka Hubby) was working the late shift and wasn’t able to get off to take her to the dance.  He was bummed, KG was bummed…and of course I hated they were going to miss this chance.  I suggested we have a Father-Daughter Dance here in our family room.  At first KG was not interested if she couldn’t be with her friends.  She just didn’t think it could be as good.

I promised her it would be special and did my best (with KG’s help) to make it very special.  We decorated with all of the Valentine’s decorations I had just put away: heart window clings, heart paper, dangling hearts, and left over balloons tied to chairs. We found some great music from our collection and from the help of blip.fm; I played DJ for the event.  Hubby bought KG a rose and KJ a carnation on his way home from work Friday night and gave them the flowers at the start of the dance.  KG and Daddy got all dressed up in their Sunday best in honor of the party.

We started the evening off with some lasagna, salad, and garlic bread.  Daddy presented his two best girls with their flowers and the evening was able to begin.  After an hour spent “dancing” and laughing, KG was content that she had the “daddy dance” ever and we had averted another melt down.  Everyone was happy and the little ladies went to bed with no fuss last night.